Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Positive Vs Negative

This blogs comes from a natural experience that most of us go through during our life. All of us wish that our life goes ahead the way we expect it to be, but due to other factors which is beyond our control makes things go the other way round. The positive and negative in this context come into existence with the past experiences in our life.

Its a general feeling that we tend to remember the negative or bad situations that happen to us than the good things. In my terms i would say 1 bad moment could outweigh 100 good things. This feeling comes in because of expectations, not only from life but also with the people whom we associated with. If things do not go as we had wished for, then it may seem the worst nightmare happening.

With such thoughts a probing in and out of us, a solution that we could follow up would be that we don't react to such situations, as if we never had a back up. A person has to always be ready for contingencies, same way one should also be ready to take up what was not expected at a point of time.

Its not very easy as said, because i experienced such things too, but working towards with a positive mind frame, would definitely help us achieve it with ease.

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

L.I.F.E

The mystery and truth of living is experienced by each person, who closes his/her eyes to have a peaceful sleep at night, wishing the happiness to always be surrounded, and wake up in the morning to open eyes to the most awaited glory of living.

Each one of us wonder whether we'll ever be able to live life exactly the way we ever wished to. No person may always be happy with the way life treats him/her. The instances of living showcase the brighter and darker shades of the life bestowed upon us. The point lies on the fact as to how much are we able to turn the darker side to the happier moments we want to live in.

The way i describe life is- Live It Fearlessly and Enthusiastically. Life can never be easy sailing all the times, but if we are able to make it so, for the major part of it, then we have truly lived our life in that sense. Its true that we are not always happy with what we get, but we always accept things that come to us. The way we approach in accepting them without encountering fear, actually makes stress stay away.

The easy methods would be to spend time with your loved ones, wishing any ups and downs occurring to be held up no longer to create misunderstandings. Viewing life in terms of celebrating each achievement with a souvenir of cherishing moments is what makes enthusiasm and cheerfulness to settle within oneself.

I wish all of u enjoy life the way it was destined in your thoughts, so that a day comes when u really feel the momentum of having lived it the way no one could have ever had.