Positive Vs Negative

This blogs comes from a natural experience that most of us go through during our life. All of us wish that our life goes ahead the way we expect it to be, but due to other factors which is beyond our control makes things go the other way round. The positive and negative in this context come into existence with the past experiences in our life.

Its a general feeling that we tend to remember the negative or bad situations that happen to us than the good things. In my terms i would say 1 bad moment could outweigh 100 good things. This feeling comes in because of expectations, not only from life but also with the people whom we associated with. If things do not go as we had wished for, then it may seem the worst nightmare happening.

With such thoughts a probing in and out of us, a solution that we could follow up would be that we don't react to such situations, as if we never had a back up. A person has to always be ready for contingencies, same way one should also be ready to take up what was not expected at a point of time.

Its not very easy as said, because i experienced such things too, but working towards with a positive mind frame, would definitely help us achieve it with ease.